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July 17, 2023

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Common Sense, Personal stories, Social Commentary

The Problem With Modern Marriage: DATING

Yes, you read the title right. I am making the assertion that the problem with modern marriage is the allowance… READ MORE
February 16, 2023

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Common Sense, corporate, innovation, Motivation, Online Activity, Personal stories, Social Commentary, Social Media, technology, workplace

ON THE SOFA: Communal Competence vs Individual Competence – Why Climbing the Ladder Seems Pointless the Smarter You are

No one makes it alone. This is a common statement handed down the success stream. However, I chose to make… READ MORE
October 7, 2022

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Common Sense, Personal stories, Social Commentary

BY THE WINDOW: Why the Kayfabe on Good Ideas – The Covid Conundrum

Good ideas are not partisan. In a mature, freethinking society, good ideas should operate as currency for progress. Instead what… READ MORE
January 26, 2022

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Personal stories, Social Commentary, Uncategorized

ON THE SOFA: Can You Afford Your Friends?

I will never forget the pastor in a Brooklyn church who uttered the words: “Your friends are God’s apology for… READ MORE
October 13, 2021

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Global Economy, Motivation, Online Activity, Personal stories, Social Commentary, Social Media

ON THE SOFA: Facebook Shutdown; Personal Opening

Before I begin let me just say what a joy that was. To hop onto Instagram and WhatsApp and all… READ MORE

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Quote of the week

“People ask me what I do in the winter when there’s no baseball. I’ll tell you what I do. I stare out the window and wait or spring.”
~ Rogers Hornsby

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